Paw-Some Pals: Introducing Your Fur Baby to Your New Baby

From slobbering, zoomies, and barking, to spit up, crawling, and crying, the transition from the joys of pet parenthood to newborn parenthood can be both exciting and intimidating — especially for the fur baby who is suddenly no longer the center of attention. Pets and children can make great companions, as long as proper steps are taken to ensure a smooth introduction.

Dr. Erin Ray, a clinical assistant professor at the Texas A&M College of Veterinary Medicine & Biomedical Sciences, discusses the tips and tricks new parents can use before, during, and after introducing a baby to the beloved family pet.

Evolving Environments

While the theory of pets sensing a pregnancy does not have consistent scientific evidence, Ray notes that our furry friends are likely to be at least somewhat aware of the incoming change to their family unit.

“I think many dogs and cats can sense behavioral changes in us that indicate something is new or different,” Ray said. “Oftentimes, pregnancy leads to changes in schedule, personal activity, and interactions with our pets that could alert them to something new. The new items and furniture brought into the home alert them as well.”

Ray recommends beginning the introduction process before the baby is born by implementing baby-related experiences into your pet’s daily routine.

“Baby sounds, including crying, can be played early on for short periods of time while providing the pet with positive reinforcements like toys or treats,” Ray said.

Once the baby is born, but before they are brought home, parents can begin introductions by letting the pet become well-acquainted with the newborn’s smell. 

“Families often use a blanket or outfit that the baby has worn to expose animals to the baby’s scent prior to the full introduction,” Ray said.

Preparing your fur-baby for a new baby also depends on the pet’s personality and the dynamics of the home.

“A very laid-back and sweet animal may adjust easily to a baby, while an anxious or older pet, or one with medical needs, may require more preparation,” Ray said. “It’s always best to consult your primary care veterinarian for advice on how to appropriately prepare your pet.”

Hi, Nice To Meet You

Once it is time to bring together your new family member and your pet, safety is the primary objective, so Ray recommends easing into the meeting with justified caution.

Begin with sight – letting your pet see the baby from across the room while gauging your pet’s interest and body language. If the initial impression seems positive, allow the dog or cat to sniff the baby to encourage a natural interaction rather than a forced one.

While each animal is different, some dog breeds are known for being especially tolerant of children, earning the stereotype of being baby’s best friend.

“Always allow space for nervous pets to run away to their kennel, cat tree, or another room,” Ray said. “If at any point you’re seeing negative or concerning signs, back up and reassess or consult a behaviorist or veterinarian before proceeding.

“I would never allow a pet to be alone with your baby because unexpected bites or swats can happen, even accidentally,” Ray said. “Animals can end up hurting a newborn out of fear or uncertainty.”

Grabbing And Giggling

How well specific pets interact with young children is dependent upon the pet’s personality and history as well as environmental factors.

“Many dogs and cats are scared or nervous around kids and babies because of a lack of proper socialization or exposure to them,” Ray said.

Kids and babies often don’t understand animals’ body language and can overstep or push the limits with unintentionally bothersome behaviors like laying on the pet or pulling ears and tails. 

These behaviors are understandably alarming to animals and can lead to an animal lashing out with a bite or scratch, resulting in a hurt child. To avoid accidents, it is important to stay aware of your pet’s body language and be quick to defuse high-tension situations.

In addition, while each animal is different, some dog breeds are known for being especially tolerant of children, earning the stereotype of being baby’s best friend.

“Dog breeds that are known as ‘nanny dogs’ include golden retrievers, Labrador retrievers, Saint Bernards, and Staffordshire bull terriers,” Ray said. “That being said, there are many dogs outside these breeds that are excellent with babies and kids, and there are dogs within these breeds that are not as well-behaved around children.”

Fur-ever Happy 

Making sure to cultivate your relationship with your pet and maintaining as much normalcy as possible before and after the baby’s arrival can help smooth the transition, too.

“Make time to do what your pets love; go for walks, give treats, play fetch, or play with toys as much as possible,” Ray said.

In creating a smooth and loving transition, your pet can be ready for their new best friend to enter their space and share the safe place they call home.